I drink on the weekends usually and my husband doesn’t much. I don’t think it has much impact other than I always have a designated driver. All 3 of our adult kids drink. Socially a few of the men in our group have quit in the past decade so we have a mix. My mother always had a pitcher of martinis in the fridge for she and my dad after work but they both pretty much stopped drinking when I was a teen so I am more of a drink if you want or don’t if you don’t want.