<p>As far as not drinking goes you just have to find friends that don’t drink and you’re golden. And there are plenty of people who don’t drink on campus. How the party would react depends on what party it is. Frat party? Bad idea. But you aren’t going to have a good time at a frat party not drinking anyway, so who cares. At most house parties nobody is really going to care if you don’t drink, especially if you’re there with friends.</p>