<p>I’m pretty outgoing but I hate small talk too. The one thing I love in conversations is making someone laugh or having someone laugh. It’s nice :)</p>
<p>I get yelled at by some of my relatives for not making small talk in the car. Haha, and the funny thing is they are just introverted as I am, they are just so used to being around people that talk about absolutely everything! While some of my relatives, like my grandma, don’t even notice that I’m quiet because they talk too much. I just have to say mhmm here and there to be polite. I’m actually quite a good listener though. Even if I think what you’re talking about is the most boring, pointless thing, I still pay attention as you rant.</p>
<p>They’re fine as friends. Not exactly relationship material though.</p>
<p>98beebee: Yeah, I have a couple. Not really close or anything. One of them acts like school is beneath him and he acts like he doesn’t try even though he does. I think he tries to cover up his nerdiness by acting like nothing matters. That kind of annoys me hah, I wouldn’t say we’re friends though anymore, the only time I really talked to him was in class and we don’t have any classes together this year.</p>
<p>Extremely socially awkward nerd here. This thread makes me wonder where all the girls who find guys like me cute are in my life. Or does “cute” rule out relationships entirely in favor of more confident guys? Not trying to be hostile, just wondering.</p>
<p>What you’ve said is sorta true… confidence is always good.</p>
<p>I find it harder to approach shy guys…or maybe I’m just shy O.o</p>
<p>^I find it so much easier.</p>
<p>Progressivism: There are plenty of girls that like this type of guy. As long as you show interest, and make them feel special, girls don’t usually have a problem being in a relationship with this type of guy. There is a difference between thinking someone is shy cute and feeling bad for them. Being in a relationship with someone you feel bad for never works out. You need to have some confidence so they don’t feel entirely bad for you or anything.</p>
<p>And by confidence, I don’t mean being cocky and bragging. You need to have the confidence to ask her out on dates. And when you ask, ask like there’s no reason for her to turn you down. Or come up with something witty. But do not say something like “I know you have better things to do, but do you want to…” or “I didn’t think you’d want to, but I thought I’d ask…” “It might not be fun…” “I don’t have anything to do this weekend, so I thought I’d ask you…” That’s when you want to be confident. The most impressive type of confidence is confidence in the way you feel about someone.</p>
<p>I have a crush on one of these guys right now. He is more socially awkward than he is nerdy. When I say he is socially awkward, I mean he doesn’t follow the norm, he isn’t shy. He is intelligent, but incredibly odd and he’s not scared to share it.
Apparently, I am “out of his league” but I find him charming.</p>
<p>i dont know if im shy or quiet. im usually quiet in about half my classes cause i dont have any friends in it, so i don’t talk to no one. But some classes i have friends in and i talk a lot</p>
<p>They’re usually really nice guys and they are nice to me so I like 'em</p>
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<p>I’m actually pretty shy</p>
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<p>:rolleyes:</p>
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I think she likes you
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<p>^^</p>
<p>I second that.</p>
<p>Love that. So relevant, lemon.</p>
<p>I loveee nerdy guys they are sooo cute. Seriously they are teh cutest! I had sex with one (true story) and I was wondering how his head worked during sex so I asked him a bunch of math questions. At first it was like what’s 84+57 and that was too easy so I asked him to integrate 1/x dx which was also really easy. And then I was like what’s the integral of sinxcosx dx? And it took him a while but he solved it. And I was trying to think of another question to ask but then he finished.</p>
<p>wut. cc sex? doesn’t compute.</p>
<p>There must be a problem if you’re thinking of math questions to ask him during sex.</p>
<p>we have a ■■■■■ here.</p>
<p>Girls love shy guys, but they don’t sleep with them. #nuffsaid</p>