Holderness and Lawrenceville are really different schools. Dig a little deeper to figure out what you want - it’ll help make your application more compelling. Based on the rest of your list, Lynn looks like the better fit.
Also, full FA for an international student is very tricky. Investigate that aspect fully. You’re an impressive candidate, but if a school has limitations on financial aid for foreign students and they don’t meet your needs, you’re just not going to get there. I