<p>As a parent/BS alum, I went into this (with my kids) with the BS Worst- Case Scenario Handbook swirling around in my head. You see, based on my own experience, I thought I could prepare them for everything- including all the challenges they’d face first term. I was wrong!</p>
<p>First term is a haul and the wave of doubt usually doesn’t hit until they (finally) have time to feel it. Christmas Break! So I guess my point is: All of us have been there. Even the parents who thought they had all the answers and could somehow prevent it.</p>
<p>I think it’s wonderful he’s sharing with you how he feels. Many kids don’t. Like ThacherParent, I wouldn’t say the end of the year either ( even though I’m a Plan A, B and C girl myself).</p>
<p>After something like this, it’s always tough on a parent to put their kid on a plane, train or in an automobile that takes them back to school. And it’s especially hard for parents to conceal their concern and look happy. The best advice I can give right now is to remain as upbeat and as enthusiastic as you possibly can.</p>
<p>Like everyone said- reach out and let his advisor know. I think he’s going to be fine.</p>
<p>Happy New Year!</p>