<p>hey everyone. im really interested in joining one of two houses this spring, but they are only doing cob dinners for recruitment. i know a few girls in each house and was wondering how i would go about trying to get invited to a cob event without creeping anyone out. im really friendly and outgoing, so i honestly have no problem just outright asking them for an invite, but obviously i dont want it to sound weird, desperate, or creepy to them. any information would be really helpful, thanks!</p>