Really overrated.
^I’m an English prof and I never point out spelling mistakes online. They are not usually "don’t know’ errors, but “typing fast, it’s a conversation not a thesis” errors.
Sorry, carry on. 
The harnesses looked great to me, but my kids immediately went round and round and up and down and over and under and tangled and tripped themselves and everyone else within harness distance. So I put them back in the stroller and told them they could never ever get out again till they could stand still. That was a very long time.
Maybe if there had been obedience classes offered for harness training children, we would have gone.
Ferrari 458, perchance?
One splurge I regretted was flying to a wedding 3 months after our oldest was born. We were promised and paid for a pair of sitters for the day, but the sitters’ mother came and told us we had to go get our kids (8 of us) just as dinner was being served because her daughters deserved to have fun at the wedding, too. Because the band was so loud, I spent the next two hours walking around the parking lot. $1500 and I pretty much only got to see the ceremony.
^Did you at least get cake?
^^^That’s not THAT bad - I was a bridesmaid three weeks after I had my second child, and by the middle of the night, one breast sprung a huge leak. To cover up, I held my toddler firstborn over the stain…for about three hours. What a nightmare. At least I had a sitter for the younger one.