@Calliemomofgirls and @cityran , I have thought of both of you and what you are balancing. It’d be so much easier if the first were further down the road in this journey in so many ways, from emotional to getting a little better hindsight and inside info. I always felt like the luckiest kids were the ones whose older sibs were in college in terms of their understanding of the process, vibes, etc.
I think you are both amazing!