<p>D is a senior in college, 22 yrs old. She got a call a while back from an old high school friend asking if she could put D’s name down as a reference on an application for a summer internship with the State Department. D said yes. Friend mentioned how the application required her to list the name of every person she knew; D and friend had a chuckle.</p>
<p>Yesterday D had a voice mail on her phone from a man who identified himself as a State Department employee doing a background check on friend and asked if he could meet her at her place of employment. D was driving at time and intended to return the call when she got back to her apartment, around lunchtime.</p>
<p>When D got home she saw a person putting fliers on the doors of each apartment in her complex (there are 8 units in this complex.) D thought nothing of it since she frequently receives fliers for pizza coupons. When D got out of the car the person, an older man, approached her and asked if he knew <em>D’s name</em>. D responded that she was <em>D’s name</em> and saw that the fliers he was placing on her neighbor’s doors basically said “The U.S. Department of State is trying to contact <em>D’s name</em>. Please call <em>phone number</em> if you know how to contact this person.”</p>
<p>D was highly embarrassed at the fliers being distributed with her name on them, but also felt uncomfortable at the man’s pushiness. He did show his State Department I.D. then asked where they could visit. Thank goodness it was a warm enough day for them to sit outside, where the State Department employee questioned her for 30 minutes about her friend. D said the questions ranged from general info – “What hobbies does your friend have?” to those of a personal nature – “How much debt does your friend have?” And then, “Does your friend have any contact with terrorists or individuals involved in terrorist organizations?”</p>
<p>D felt she answered the questions as honestly as she knew how – “I am not aware of any contact friend has with terrorists, but of course I cannot be 100% sure. But friend has always been honest and a person of integrity since I have known her so I believe she would do a good job for you.”</p>
<p>We talked afterwards about how you never really KNOW someone, even though this was her best friend in high school. But the fact is that D gets together twice a year with her and keeps up on Facebook. Other than that, D doesn’t really know what kinds of people friend hangs out with. I assured D that she did a great job and, as long as she was honest, not to worry.</p>
<p>I, OTOH, have mixed feelings about all of this. Angry that anyone would post fliers around with D’s name on it, that he basically stalked her apartment complex looking for her, couldn’t wait an hour for a return phone call from her, put her in a position where she had to answer questions at HIS convenience, not hers, and asked questions of an uncomfortably personal nature about her friend. The whole thing seemed inappropriate, although D is an adult now and the most we can do is offer advice and role-play for future situations.</p>
<p>And I get that the State Dept. has to do their due diligence in vetting persons working with classified information, but all of this for a summer internship???</p>