Apologies for any redundancy here as I didn’t read all replies. I will describe my s20’s process, take home messages and more recent learnings.
First, he found this website really useful for knowing about all options.
http://profiles.asee.org/
Check out the ‘applicants’ and ‘enrolled’ menu options on the left. In one way, engineering is easier as it whittles down the options tremendously. This site shows you the various eng specialities at each school and their relative sizes.
My son has an intense practical streak and has a knack for taking the cards he’s been dealt and leveraging them well. So he did not care one lick about prestige (his parents did!). While his father and I were total suckers for all of that stuff, it didn’t influence him one bit.
That being said, he was also a high stats kid with zero patience for non-serious students (they ‘waste his time’). So the above website helped him build his initial list because he could see where else he’d fit in stats-wise. Besides being a two sport varsity athlete and a state-ranked musician, he was very un-special. No national math awards or leadership positions. He’s a follower, not a leader.
His initial list had 20 schools, and we visited them all. He never considered super elite schools (MIT, CalTech) as he knew he was not in that league.
Early advice from a hiring manager of engineers for a major defense contractor pointed him at 1) ‘tech’ schools and 2) large. We live in Ohio, so this VP dude friend of mine said ‘if he can get into OSU, he’d be insane to go anywhere else.’ The only exception, he said, was Georgia Tech (his alma mater).
Spoiler- son is currently a freshmen at OSU in pre-engineering. Chem E major is his goal and he currently absolutely loves it.
I won’t drag you through each school he examined, but here are some themes, to answer your original questions.
- He was not swayed by environment , at all. Rural, city, rah-rah, intellectual, intense, laid-back, beautiful, 1970’s concrete architecture ....none of it mattered. He cared about three things. 1) current research accomplishments of faculty; he read their publications and emailed their grad students; 2) career center effectiveness and 3) engineering facilities and curriculum; a ‘light’ engineering curriculum, where students could easily double-major, was seen as a bug to him, not a feature. That eliminated several top contenders.
He also had a gigantically negative reaction to any schools he felt were ‘marketing to him.’ One very elite school had a long video in the presentation with lots of kids hugging and the word ‘community’ was mentioned 10,000 times. We left in the middle of that one. The college which emphasized OVER and OVER how they seek kids with a ‘passionate purpose’ turned him off like a light.
In contrast, three schools had a ‘this is the engineering curriculum; sorry there is only room for 2 electives, but that’s the way it is’ kind of approach. This really appealed to him the most. Cornell and UCLA rose to top 3 because of that.
He never saw a dorm, a dining hall, a fitness facility or a student center. He did check out the ice rink as he’d like to play a little hockey, but he spent all of his time in the engineering buildings and maker-space areas.
By his last visit (happened to be OSU), he had eliminated 15 or so from his list. A few came off simply because he saw no reason to go to a state flagship so similar to his own (UIUC, Purdue). Others because of violating one of his weird rules (too much BS in the marketing messages). We were moderately panicked at that point since OSU was the only school anywhere near the realm of being a safety. Fortunately, his visit to OSU (again, deep inspection of facilities, near FBI check of the faculty and a solid engineering presentation), he came home and announced he was going to OSU. He applied EA (to only OSU, and was accepted in the first round, thanks goodness).
So far, so good. His focus right now is ensuring he gets into his major of choice; usually it is done at the end of the first full year. He just loves his fundamentals of engineering class although it has caused a bit of a dilemma in that he has had his head turned a bit by electrical engineering. Good problem to have.
While we were prepared to be full pay at an expensive private (he’s our youngest), our son was very, very against that. Not so much because of not wanting to pay for an elite name, but come to eventually learn, because of the added pressure it would have added to him to ‘love it.’ He is a head-down, leave-me-alone to study, serious kid. He didn’t want to add the thought that his parents are paying $75k for him to be there to the pressure he knew he would put on himself. He elected to stay home and do all remote classes this semester and one of his reasons was he felt living in a dorm doing almost all remote classes was stupid. Seems like almost every other kid in the country did not agree with him.
His story is likely different than a lot of kids described here. He is odd, we confess, and his physical appearance (big, strong male athlete who barely speaks) results in many who don’t know him well reacting with surprise upon hearing his plans (you…YOU, want to be a Chem E major? Weren’t you on the hockey team?). He is accustomed to being different than expectations. He knows precisely what he wants. Nothing we said really even gave him pause.