@calmom - I absolutely hear you 100%. He works very hard, and he loves to challenge himself, but I think it’s because that’s who he is. It’s never been about competing to get into a top school. It just so happens that the school that seems to appeal to him most is getting pretty high up there in the selectivity rankings. I do think some of his motivation comes from his personal competition with this kid who I’m talking about - they are actually friends, well “friends” (ha) who have a competitive dynamic going on. Actually, he probably wouldn’t be quite where he is today without that little rivalry. So, yes, he will end up where he is supposed to be, especially if we let him steer this process. I just have to remember to let go. It’s a learning experience for everybody!