<p>Calmom: Never thought of LI for son as protecting his future earnings. Good point about a written agreement.</p>
<p>As responsible parents we of course have LI. How much longer we will maintain LI is something I am pondering. Anyway we had a child policy (rider) on our policy. We were getting solicitations just like PEOPLE got and it started me to thinking… If the kid got his own policy-what would be cost? Discovered that his cost wasn’t that much more And that he could have a lot of coverage. We own his policy because the agent said that he was underage and couldn’t own the policy, which worked for us anyway. What we did is to take his cost off our policy, hence his coverage dependence , added a few more bucks and he got hugh amount more insurance for definitely a longer period than I am willing to keep ours. The decision was strickly a value based decision, which I later morphed to my post #3, particularily when I see my progressive worsening health problems, and things we hear/see kids do at college. </p>
<p>Does S knows how much $ borrowed. Yes, he does. Makes him careful with the $$. Does S knows how that money is to be paid back-Sort of. He knows that the $ is in various investments and accounts, all of which is in joint accounts with his name. He has access to statements if he desires, which he doesn’t. I tried to talk to him in more detail this past SpringBreak but it was blown off. Now today I discovered from spouse that he wants to learn more about accounting-business. Am I the only one to discover that talking $ education is way more difficult than sex ed? Is money just like sex- IT JUST HAPPENS! ?</p>
<p>We have a close relationship. The money is HIS money that we started when he was a baby and grandparents gave to him, for his college. As you know, minors, cannot “own” accounts but must be in a custodianship-as we are told. I really don’t like to have any loans but the amount that CMU wants versus his college funds was far out of balance 3 years ago, and the college loan rates was very attactive then and now, but will get worse. We have most of the loans as PLUS because, I am not going to cosign anything and I want to keep his record clean. </p>
<p>My wife Does know about the retirement funds and college funds. She knows that the bubble loss was severe but doesn’t want to know the severity. We didn’t then or now have a great deal of aggressive money. The media says that people was/is in the same situation. </p>
<p>I plan to have a good portion of the loans paid off by the time he gets a master’s, The money was dedicated for college anyway and if he gets “independent,” all the loans will be paid as much as possible and leaving little funds remaining for him to claim. My projections is $0 bucks on BS graduation, however, I do not plan to pay off the loans when the investment increases is more than the loan rates. </p>
<p>NJres: Didn’t know about the LI for student loans, but again the LI was really a value purchase-transference, and only a few dollars per month more, for far more coverage, and longer period than he/we had coverage under our policy. </p>
<p>Have I missed anything? Not going to sleep tonight.</p>