<p>Hi, all. First-time poster here. I read this whole thread and felt I had to add something.</p>
<p>There are four elements in George Huguely’s background that always seem to come into play when people discuss this case: his family, Landon, lacrosse and UVa. </p>
<p>Now, I don’t think any one of these can be directly held accountable for Huguely being who he was. There is probably some unpleasant family stuff we don’t know about (isn’t there always?) but on the whole, I see Huguely’s environment not as a cause but as an enabler.</p>
<p>I’m no psychologist but it seems perfectly clear that George Huguely is not just a ‘normal kid’ who snapped. I think he’s an alcoholic with serious anger issues and maybe an underlying personality disorder. In my view, his privileged environment served as a petri dish that allowed his problems to flourish unchecked until they all came together in a tragic “perfect storm”.</p>
<p>Lacrosse – I see three factors here. One: the hard-partying culture. I know not all players engage, but I also know perfectly well that it exists. I think a lot of Huguely’s drunken misbehavior was probably brushed off as “oh, he’s just being a lacrosse jock”. Two: team loyalty. I am sure that his fellow players witnessed – and remained quiet about – many a behavioral lapse. Three: elite athlete status, which allowed Huguely to remain on the team even after a drunken attack on a teammate (see One). </p>
<p>None of these factors is unique to lacrosse, of course. But lacrosse is what Huguely played and lived, so lacrosse is relevant.</p>
<p>UVa – I think we all know that UVa, like MANY colleges and universities, protects its elite athletes. I doubt we’ll ever know the full extent of the blind eye the university turned to Huguely’s behavior, but that doesn’t mean we can ignore this factor.</p>
<p>Landon – Similar point to above.</p>
<p>Huguely’s family – Sensitive subject, as I have zero inside information, and I am sure they are suffering terribly right now. But all I can say is, if it were my kid, I’d have taken some strong measures after some of these incidents, and especially after the Washington & Lee arrest. At that point I’d have concluded that my son was abusing his status as an elite athlete and college student, and I’d have yanked him out of school. Period.</p>
<p>Finally, I just want to say that I hope a lot of people out there have their minds open to learning from this terrible case. I don’t have a lot of hope for the entrenched mindset of our elite schools (I went to one). But I do hope that our college students – athletes and fraternity members especially – will realize that silence is not always the best form of loyalty. Huguely’s teammates and frat brothers would have served him far better in the end by speaking up. As information about this case trickles out, it’s obvious that there’s a lot they knew that perhaps no one else did. It’s also obvious that there are some very simple things they could have done that might well have prevented Yeardley’s death.</p>
<p>I’m sure those kids never thought it would come to this. But now we all know that it can.</p>