@NEPatsGirl Here is the definition of crazy parent. It may sound insane, but you need to trust your kids. My parents let me make choices for myself, and they always have. They treated me like an adult and gave me my space to make my own decisions and I turned into a motivated, ambitious individual. Free time is fine. Not all kids use their free time to go out partying and drinking. Some, like myself, play video games or hang out with friends or learn something new. Parents like you make me sick. You act like because you gave birth to someone that you have the right to control their lives. Your children may live with you, but that doesn’t mean that you are their supreme ruler. Then again, it’s the parents like you that raise the kids who resent you and wish to leave and never return. So, take your pick I guess.