<p>I’m very sorry to hear this, TV4caster. I remember your posts from a couple of years ago and seem to recall your child was not crazy about going to UVa to begin with (and that there was some drama around the whole selection process-excuse me if I’m not remembering that correctly). I think your child really liked Clemson and some of us suggested that VT seemed more similar to Clemson than UVa (but I believe your child would not consider VT?). This is tough and it would be very tough for you I’m sure to keep hearing all this negative stuff for this length of time. Has your child considered counseling to look at her potential role in all of this? Or considered transfer? Good luck. This sounds pretty miserable. </p>