<p>Frazzled- she was in that latter group and did get in for 1 session a few days later and then was told that she was on her own. They did give us some recommendations for private entities and she is taking advantage of one of them. </p>
<p>I don’t think she feels like she is progressing toward her future but that is in no way UVA’s fault (and would be the same at VT or any other school). She simply doesn’t know what she wants to do with her life but will still need to pick a major in a couple of months. </p>
<p>Erwinrd- She is seeing someone now and it is certainly helping to keeps things from getting completely out of hand. She is going to VT a lot because her brother, best friend, boyfriend, and several other very close friends are there. She says she just can’t stay at UVA most weekends because all her roommates and friends are in sororities and head off to events and she is left alone and depressed. It’s a catch-22. If she stays she feels worse; if she leaves she feels better but is probably lowering her chances of interacting and forging meaningful relationships. </p>
<p>Everyone- thanks for the comments and suggestions. She has tried most of them already but I think Hazel’s suggestion of APO is a really good fit for her personality and she sounded excited to explore that. </p>