<p>SBlake, I’m not sure, but I think that the OP’s daughter has already been accepted to college for next year with an aid package consisting only of loans and a TAP award:
I also think that the OP has already been approved for a PLUS loan:
I would agree with your advice to him if the question was geared to a student with another year of high school, but the problem is that no matter how much financial aid the kid qualifies for, it doesn’t help if the kid is already planning to attend a college that won’t offer grants to meet full need. Based on the numbers provided, the OP is looking at paying out almost 12,000 in college expenses for the coming year. </p>
<p>Quite frankly, with all the OP’s financial problems, I’m not sure that the $14K will be there in a year – which is why I thought it made sense under these circumstances for him to just give the kid whatever is left after paying for room, board & tuition. It won’t affect next year’s aid eligibility, because that has already been determined. </p>
<p>During the 2007-2008 school year, the FAFSA calculation will change, and only 25% of the child’s assets will be assessed – but given the fact that the child attends a college that is not offering grant aid, it probably won’t make a difference. The child will probably still qualify for Stafford loans, even if EFC goes up by virtue of a few thousand dollars in the kid’s bank account.</p>
<p>Frankly, my concern is that with all the financial pressures on this family, it will be extremely hard for this parent to refrain from spending the $14K on something else. I know what it is like to be overwhelmed with debt – sooner or later an emergency comes up and the temptation to “borrow” from the kid’s fund is too much, and then the money is gone.</p>
<p>I am hoping that somewhere along the line this kid has developed into a person who is more frugal and careful with money than the father. I don’t know that to be the case – but at this point the kid can’t be any worse. If the kid knows that this year’s gift is the last of the father’s money, the kid will be motivated to work and save and can probably manage to put himself (or herself?) through college; it’s very possible at a public institution.</p>
<p>You give excellent financial advice, but some of what you say only applies to families who are solvent - with kids attending the kind of colleges that meet full need. My background as a lawyer means that I’ve seen what tends to happen over time to families in financial distress, so my advice is practical. If the father tries to hang on to the money and instead used a PLUS loan this year… in a year from now the $14K will be gone anyway, plus the father will have fallen behind on PLUS loan payments and won’t qualify for further loans.
This is the one phrase that tells me this kid is going to be o.k. I just think that it’s better for this kid to get the benefit of the money this year, while it is there – and to know that he will be on his own for future years. Next year, if the dad is turned down for a PLUS loan, the kid will be able to take out a second Stafford loan in his own name, and I believe that the sophomore Stafford amount is going up to $4500 – so in 2007, if dad can’t borrow, kid can borrow $9000 if needed. And once the dad no longer is holding the $14K, he won’t feel the burden of guilt about the money, and will be free to focus on repairing his own financial problems. </p>
<p>Sometimes it’s just better for everyone to part ways financially and cut their losses.</p>