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<p>Your mention of “finding a Rabbi” brought to mind a much admired collection of poetry - dark, brooding, intense, lyrical - by the Israeli poet Abba Kovner concerning his own (ultimately losing) battle with cancer, Sloan-Kettering.</p>

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<p>LTS–does the hospital have a Jewish chaplain available? If it is large enough it may…there are now more programs available to train rabbis to enter the chaplaincy or other areas than being congregational rabbis. </p>

<p>I will also ask if anyone knows anyone in the DC area.</p>

<p>peace…namaste…shalom …from south jersey</p>

<p>paying3tuitions might be able to help with loocating a local rabbi</p>

<p>Fervent wishes for a day of higher oxygen levels, a measured bit of exercise, and recuperative rest. We are here, LTS.</p>

<p>Two thoughts on finding a rabbi, so you and your D might share thoughts with him/her: </p>

<p>Agreeing with Mommusic: the first and simplest way is contact the chaplain’s office of the hospital you are in. </p>

<p>If they have a resident Jewish chaplain that serves the hospital, that’s great.</p>

<p>If not, or if you have issue with that chaplain, then ask if you can be put on the rounds (a personal list, basically) of one of the many congregational rabbis who come in to see their own congregants. Most would be willing. </p>

<p>If that doesn’t sound satisfying or productive to you, PM me for some other ideas I have. I’d say you might find best resonance with a rabbi from the Reform movement or Alpha/Renewal, all of whom are represented in D.C.</p>

<p>If you want to talk to a rabbi, you don’t need to know why you want a rabbi. Sometimes I feel like talking to a priest. :slight_smile: The heart has its own reasons.</p>

<p>you are such a person of heart and mind, LTS, so even though the treatment you are undergoing is extremely rough and debilitating and I am guessing your are interrupted night and day at odd hours in every way imaginable, and that your reserves are focused on efforts in work with your dear caregivers, find a way to get music into your ears now and then when you have an segment of an hour…and consider a great wonderful voice of an author you consider to be part of that something greater on an ipod download, as I am imagining your tolerance for the TV chattering box is tanking, and you need all your avenues of spiritual renewal around you. I am weird, but I am looking right now on my bulletin board of postcards I keep, yellowing but before me in my office, and just seeing their faces heartens me, and it is even possible I talk to my postcards now and then: Victor Hugo looking magnificent, a really crazed looking photo of an aged Tolstoy in his peasant garb with unkempt beard, Nureyev lifting up Fonteyne, Dylan at 22, Toni Morrison, and Isaac B Singer, that rebel son of a Rabbi who wrote so much truth and hilarious ironic humanity all down in Yiddish. They are some of my imaginary friends and spiritual guides with their searing insights and their vivid gifts for telling the great universal story over and over in completely astoundly new ways. I require listening to magic in this world of suffering and beauty. </p>

<p>While your body is out of commission and unable to be pushed and exercised, feed your soul in whatever way makes you remember you are surrounded by magic…as it is your soulfulness that is the fine and beautiful thing —which even your CC cyberpals can all see so clearly expressed in your postings by the way.</p>

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My protestant D spent yesterday morning at a monastery - about an hour away, and where the monks have taken a vow of silence. She went with about 10 or so college-aged friends. They each went their own way for an hour or so of drinking in the “communication of silence.”</p>

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<p>BEAUTIFUL!</p>

<p>I’ll chime in re rabbis: You could also call Hillel at Georgetown or any other DC university to get referrals to local rabbis, synagogues, chaplains.</p>

<p>LTS both Epistrophy and I posted “It’s Not About The Hair” which was written by a chaplain who herself got cancer. I think you would like it. She was a Christian chaplain but counsels people of all faiths and draws from many religious traditions herself.</p>

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<p>–Deepak Chopra</p>

<p>LTS,
PM me with your hospital and I’ll ask my rabbi for recommendations.</p>

<p>LTS: Do you like classical music? When I had surgery, I found listening to Bach and Mozart religious music enormously comforting and I’m not religious.</p>

<p>LTS</p>

<p>Have you read My Grandfather’s Blessings by Rachel Naomi Remen? It’s a wonderfully written reflective book by an MD with chronic illnesses–subtitle: Stories of Strength, Refuge and Belonging. I would love to mail you my copy if you want to pm an address. It would be a nice thing for caretakers to read to you.</p>

<p>Here’s an exerpt from the beginning of a chapter I opened to randomly–is anything really random?</p>

<p>“Sometimes the very things that threaten our life may strengthen the life in us. Loss and crisis often activate the will to live. When this happens, we may grow larger than the obstacles that face us and free ourselves from problems that never go away by living beyond them.”</p>

<p>and another (living with lung cancer)</p>

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<p>Bethie,
I haven’t read that one, but I have Kitchen Table Wisdom by the same author and have found it very inspirational.</p>

<p>Incredibly wise, I thought.</p>

<p>Here’s another “random” quotation from the book: “It takes many years to remember that everything of value we have to give was not learned from a book and that the wisdom to live well is not conferred with an advanced degree. But real teachers are everywhere. The life in us will be blessed by others over and over again until finally we have remembered how to bless it ourselves.”</p>

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<p>–Rita Dove (youngest Poet Laureate of the United States)</p>

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–Issa, 1806</p>

<p>more about lung cancer and sainthood</p>

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