<p>So I’m deciding which college to go to next year, and I’ve narrowed it down to two choices. One is in a large city, and would be on the opposite side of the country from where I am now. I don’t know anybody there, but I’m excited about the prospects of meeting new people and trying out a different “lifestyle”.</p>
<p>Or I could play it safe and go to my State School U, where I know I will enjoy it and I will be closer to home/ friends.</p>
<p>I have visited both schools, and love both. I’m really interested in “changing up” my life a little bit by going to the first school. However, I’m afraid that a year from now I may regret that decision if it’s not all I hoped it to be. Any thoughts?</p>
<p>No one can answer this for you. I know which one I’d choose (did choose), but I’m not you. </p>
<p>One thing to think about is homesickness, which is almost universal among students who leave home, but it varies in intensity and duration. Have you ever been away from your parents for an extended period? How do you do when thrown into a situation where you don’t know anyone? Are you reasonably good at making new friends?</p>
<p>I can just about guarantee you that, no matter which way you go, at some point down the road, you’ll think, “Maybe I chose wrong.” That’s just human nature, so be ready for it; it doesn’t mean you made a mistake.</p>
<p>The main thing to remember is one of those parent sayings: College (anything, really) is what you make it. At either school, if you dive in, prepared to work hard and open to people and possibilities – you’ll be OK.</p>