taking kids' friends on college visits - smart or not?

<p>We took my daughter’s boyfriend on two trips, and didn’t on three trips. It was a “carrot and stick” kind of thing. My daughter might have been mopey “wasting” more time on college trips (we did too many last summer). Her boyfriend’s family is also not as college-focused as our is. We wanted him to see the possibilities of what college might offer. I am not worried at all about them going to the same college or having undo influence on each other. The circumstances of the two families is different.</p>

<p>And it was fun!</p>