<p>Pesonally, I would be irrate if another parent chose to serve alcohol at a party that my child attended. I find that a shocking abdication of parental responsibility. Further, I would have no problem taking up the issue with that parent directly. But I think the point that is well illustrated by fishymom, is that there is no “ivory tower” where our children will be immune from this sort of behavior - not in the public system or the private system.</p>