Is your middle school also a boarding school?
I am sorry hearing that.
For handling these issues I give PA credit— they had the survey disclosing about 2% suicidal attempt. As parents I would rather the school face the challenges openly than hiding 
it. Our kid’s school had one serious suicidal attempt last month. At parents side, we had received one email saying that was taken care of, like we were told “ oh we had a game last night”. Considering being a second case of suicidal attempt within 12 months.
Hope the school does not feel it is shame.