Another “watch the Lions lose” family here (but they were playing at Briggs Field when I started watching the annual debacle). We don’t have any set traditions, since we spent so many years sharing the holiday with my family, H’s family, my brother’s family & at our house … every year things could be different, and we were always flexible.
Now, D hosts. She & her H don’t like turkey, so he is smoking a bunch of meat. I am cooking a small turkey at home & taking it over (along with stuffing, which my SIL likes a lot). One tradition we started a couple years ago is to make a Napa cabbage salad that my mom enjoyed making - there are some fun family memories associated with it, and it allows my mom to be with us in spirit.
I will just be happy to spend some time with my kids & my GD.