I have frequently read posts on CC that refer to applying to a “super” reach as a lottery ticket and or read advice “you can’t get in unless you apply so go for it”.
When playing the lottery everyone has the same very small chances of winning. Hardly the case for less qualified college applicants. More importantly lottery costs are entirely monetary and modest. For a time constrained, sleep deprived HS senior the effort, cost and emotional toll of applying to schools that are beyond their reach is punitive.
I believe this “shoot for the stars” mind set is a result of adults unwillingness to deliver tough messages to kids. Instead we defer that responsibility to admissions professionals. Once the inevitable rejections roll in we explain it away by saying the process isn’t fair, there are to many well qualified candidates for to few spots, legacies and athletes take up all the spots etc… Statistically the greater likelihood is you didn’t stand a chance to begin with.
The college addmissions process is not perfect but the rules of play are pretty clear. Largely the results are predictable and sensible. While disappointments abound in my opinion much could be avoided by realistic adult intervention.
Ok so I am trying to get a discussion going so should we tell our kids Santa doesn’t exist and there is no Harvard bound 3.3 GPA JV athlete who’s only EC is a lemonade stand or should we encourage them to go for it and hope?