<p>I’m starting this thread because I wonder if we are all doing what we can to make the most of our kids’ strengths (curmudgeon’s thread prompted this). Somewhere about 18 months ago (I’m sorry I don’t know where) I read an interview with an admissions officer, who claimed that of utmost importance is to have an “advocate” on campus.</p>
<p>Of course we know that the athletes have their advocates (my sons’ school is a feeder school to the lacrosse giants), but we should not overlook the fact that ANY faculty member or leader on campus could be an advocate.</p>
<p>Here’s an example. Last fall we took S2 and Best Friend (then juniors) to visit schools in upper New England, highlight was Bowdoin. Both have been taking Japanese since 2nd grade. BF has not only excelled, skipping several class levels, but is also fascinated w/Japanese culture & has done an exchange. He is otherwise a BWRK, no superstar. Before we went, we made an appointment with the chair of the Asian Studies dept, and when we arrived and were greeted, made certain the 2 boys greeted the chair IN JAPANESE. They proceeded to have a long interview both with the chair and the J. language instructor. The end result was establishing a relationship between Bowdoin and our school. In fact, Bowdoin J. language instructor just finished a week-long visit to our school to observe the J. program!</p>
<p>Best Friend, although being an “average” student for Bowdoin in terms of stats, has been keeping up an email correspondence with chair of Asian Studies, and will have an advocate who will make a lot of noise in the Admissions Office. This is so important, and can easily make the difference for an admit. Even my S2, who is frankly a “superstar” in stats, will be using his Japanese as a hook even though this is not his strongest feature (we & BF family also are not J. or descendants, this is completely from scratch).</p>
<p>I think most of our children have one “hook” or maybe two that will be of interest to a faculty member or similar person. The trick is to find this person, and make serious, substantive contact. </p>
<p>The alternative is to send in the applications etc. and hope you stand out–it seems to me that’s much more a roll of the dice. </p>
<p>Would love to have people post their child’s strength and wishes for schools, and have the rest of us brainstorm the possibilities.</p>
<p>Laurel
(please don’t flame me–I’ve had enough of this here–just ignore me if you don’t want to participate)</p>