<p>Every student is different, and what’s perfect for one kid may be a total disaster for the other. I respect the OP for having the maturity, determination, and intelligence to get the first rate experience in a big state U. </p>
<p>However, I don’t think the OP’s experience can be generalized to support the statement that depending on your drive and hard work, big U can serve you just like a top notch school would. Furthermore, I don’t believe that since you can always find 100-200 really top notch, brilliant minds in a state U, you can create your own “island” of academic excellence, and equate that to be the kind of education you get in a top notch college where majority majority of the students are top notch, and where the whole institution is geared to serve the needs of that majority.</p>
<p>Why do we have Silicone Valley in Silicone Valley, not in Appalachia? There must be a lot of brilliant students there too. The difference is, in Silicone Valley, the total sum of brilliant minds reached a critical mass that ignited the whole digital phenomenon, while in Appalachia, the are too thinly dispersed to make a movement. Why did Renaissance happen in Italy, more precisely in Florence, NOT in Sweden, Paris, or even London? Because, all the brilliant creative geniuses congregated in Florence (mostly because of the patronage of the Medici family), and there, their collective weight was sufficient to catapulted the whole era into a different vector. Brilliant minds build on top of each other’s brilliance. Thus, we start a chain reaction. That’s why we acknowledge the importance of “zeitgeist” (the spirit of time). Throughout history, it has been VERY RARE that there was a singular genius that is a TOTALLY isolated phenomenon. We usually see an era or location of abundant genius minds. </p>
<p>The size of the “target population” matter. It’s like a chemical reaction. Until the total mass of the critical agent reaches a critical mass, you don’t see the chain reaction starting. </p>
<p>So, if you have a brilliant student, his/her development is much more likely to be accelerated in an environment where intellectual rigor is a NORM, not an exception. </p>
<p>This is in no way to diminish or trivialize the OP’s experience. It served his needs, but it may not serve the needs of different kind of minds. I have two sons. Both of them are wonderful and brilliant in their own way. For S2, the big U honors program will be a perfect fit, and I will encourage that - that’s because his brilliance is more holistic, and he has an ambition for a political career. His experience in dealing with a much wider swath of population at large will be very beneficial. Having a good understanding of Joe the Plumber of the world will be a very important part of his success equation. (I am NOT saying that state U students are like Joe the Plumber. I am using this term metaphorically).</p>
<p>However, for S1, I am willing to pay through the nose to send him to a school where intellectual rigor is a NORM, rather than an island of spark maintained by a select few. He has an unusually gifted, intellectual mind, and he needs to be in a place where the critical mass is there to ignite the chain reaction in him and around him. He is likely to reside in a rarefied community of his own kind later in life, rather than having to appeal to the general population. So, the myth of “well rounded exposure to the population in general” is not much of an issue. (Overall, he is a every well adjusted, sociable kid anyway to begin with).</p>
<p>Do I value S1’s gift over S2’s? No. In fact, S2 may go on to become much more successful by worldly standard. So, I am not “investing” my resources based on the “return potential”. I am just trying to help them find the environment that best fit their natural gift and the life goal.</p>
<p>So, let’s all applaud the State Universities and their good students. But, let’s also do that for a right reason. Insisting you can get a same quality, thoroughly intellectually grounded education there as you can in really top notch schools is really a stretch.</p>