Yes…this. From an emotional perspective, losing NJTheatreMOM made me keep circling back to “the experience & expression of bereavement.” The books are so much about loss. I kept putting off picking them up until absolutely necessary and didn’t finish until the day of discussion. I couldn’t stop wondering about what she would say, and–knowing her as we do!–what would have likely driven her crazy about certain aspects of the writing (probably Daoud rather than Camus).
From a practical perspective, losing NJTheatreMOM changed the dynamic of the discussion. She was a prolific poster and industrious outside researcher. Her absence has made me feel strongly (and with a measure of guilt) that we didn’t do these two books justice, since she wasn’t here to handle some of the heavy lifting.
Thanks for your post, @ManhattanBoro, and for the suggestion of The Blue Room.
And on the subject of suggestions, I will organize a list of choices for August today, doing my best to channel NJTM as I veto some books and add others. Stay tuned. (I plan to include a few popular best-seller type choices, which will have her shaking her head at me from heaven!)
In case I don’t say it enough–and I’m sure I don’t–I am truly grateful for everyone who participates in our discussions, be it as a regular poster, an intermittent one, or a lurker. I love reading with all of you. Thanks for the many ways you make me think, analyze, reflect–and laugh.