The struggle is real: Mom talk

I saw this today and it made me smile remembering all the threads here on CC about the information we need to pass onto our young adult offspring.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jVPUnh8weKU&nohtml5=False

Love it!

This is hilarious!! Especially, “What’s my social? Mom,why are you whispering it, just say it!!”

I think I’ve heard all of these!

I have had all of these conversations this year. I love it!

I am wondering how the girl in the video managed to sign and fax back her job/internship offer. Maybe she got lucky and they did not ask her to do it but my daughter called me with this particular problem.

I had seen this before and showed it to my 18-year-old daughter. She has expressed concern about knowing how to do all of that “adult stuff.” I told her, “See, you can just call me anytime you have a question and get an instant answer!” It really did seem to make her feel better. :slight_smile:

The “social” thing is so me and my kids. I’ve told them repeatedly its time to memorize it. I’ve been asked way too many times and since I only have mine and my husband’s memorized it always means digging out the tax files.

I love how they want to be treated like an adult but still call asking all these kids of questions. :wink:

Lol. Thanks for posting.

My daughter needed to fax a form. NO idea how to do it. I told her to go to the athletic department office and ask. She was shocked that someone there knew how to use office equipment and send a fax.

It’s like magic.

My kids are in their early thirties, and I …think…we’re past this now. Pretty much. :slight_smile:

Sadly, my husband called me this weekend whiled visiting our college freshman to ask for our kid’s social security number because he was trying to help set up the kid’s new chip-enabled ATM card. NEITHER of them knew the number. Sigh.

H wouldn’t have any idea on mine or any of the kids’. H and ex-H’s SSN are only different by 3 digits. I always have to pause and make sure I’m using the correct SSN for H. :slight_smile:

If we add husbands to the discussion – that could take volumes! This morning my H couldn’t find the lunch HE packed last night and placed on the top shelf of the fridge in front. Neither he nor the kids can use our home fax machine - despite the number of times I’ve shown them how.

Good thing the husband is decorative, or I might lose patience with him.

Great video! Garland- good to know that by 30 they know what to do and have the habits (we still remind our son to do his taxes, fund his IRA- don’t trust him yet).

SSN- not something I would memorize. Only know mine because did so in college when they merely added a digit for student ID. Not terrible now because those files weren’t loaded into the computers now in use- I guess it takes longer to access info from then because the files are stored somewhere. SSN is something to have written down on paper and kept someplace- not on a digital device that can be hacked.

I find their knowledge is like Swiss cheese. Somethings they know, which astounds me, and then the things they don’t know astound me also.

Technology. They know technology.

I sort of casually mentioned taxes around 30 year old and he had indeed done them. But whenever he does some new grown up thing, I still sometimes get a #adulting text announcing it.

33 year old is married and owns a house; not worried about them with “adulting” things overall, but they’re looking at parenthood now, and I am ready to be on call for those calls! :slight_smile:

Its funny to hear this stuff.

For those who haven’t seen the other end of things.

https://www.geico.com/more/geico-community/commercials/mother-knows-best/

That’s my concern. God forbid something happens to me tomorrow, is dd going to be completely lost. They need academic smarts but also street smarts or common sense.

@dadx: That is my favorite commercial. I really never get tired of seeing it!!