<p>“Sometimes dealing with my deficiency has been very discouraging.”</p>
<p>^ as has been true for many physically disabled people before the modern age, with technology, research, inventions - has begun to enable them to achieve in the world, to earn decent livings, without the more severe level of discouragement they once experienced as the stuff of their daily lives. </p>
<p>But LOL, I guess we should make those people learn the hard way and teach them a thing or two about how unfair accommodation is. After all, they’ll learn much more if they have to overcome even more obstacles in life.</p>
<p>(No, they’ll just be more discouraged, that’s all. The more persistent, determined ones will press on & may eventually come close to their goals, but with much wasted time & energy in their lives. Their success will be delayed & possibly incomplete. Personally, I’m immensely grateful for modern accommodations to those with physical disabilities, because I strongly suspect that many of those people have contributed in some way to the betterment of a society that I live in & enjoy.)</p>
<p>Interesting how willing most people are to <em>see</em>, to <em>accept</em>, and to be generous about physical disabilities, but not other kinds. </p>
<p>And the notion that anyone aware of a deficiency, or a disability, is walking around assuming that he or she has “compensating gifts,” based on that deficiency, is a bizarre notion.</p>
<p>The sense of being different that a gifted student has, esp. a young one, is more painful than pleasurable. Overall, it is not fun being gifted unless you are mostly relating to others like yourself, who are not forever excluding you, feeling threatened by you, resenting you, & confused by you.</p>