<p>Berurah, I’m like your daughter in terms of size I think, and since I grew early and then had to wait for the other kids to catch up with me, I’ve been sensitive about my body for years. I’m finally starting to get more comfortable in my own skin and I’m dressing better for my coloring and shape, but I’ve realized that I sort of used to do the opposite of your daughter and buy a lot of too-baggy clothing in darker colors that don’t suit me. I was trying to hide my shape but it backfired. I still like black for its slimming qualities, but I’ve learned that brighter colors really look best on me, especially in the right forms, and getting dressed is more fun now. 
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<p>Major props to your daughter to finding a style that suits her body and her tastes. Now I wish I could see pictures for inspiration! :P</p>