<p>A college education itself is a gigantic privilege. The problem is, a lot of us forget that when we hang around CC. We start to think that a full ride to a top college is great, and every hard working smart kid is entitled to that. That’s just not true, there is no utopia where that is remotely the case. </p>
<p>A mathematician will tell you everything is based upon math. A scientist, science, a psychologist, the collective interactions of our minds, etc. Well, I’m going to be an economist right now and say everything is based upon money. To a great degree, money determined social status and the availability of certain privileges. It all comes down to supply and demand - USC obviously had enough equally special applicants who were paying full to not care if the OP girl chose not to attend USC because of money. Screw need-blind, I’m calling BS on that one, I don’t buy it for a minute. </p>
<p>If you believe all of the equal opportunity, feel-good, you are a beautiful and unique snowflake crap that the ‘system’ gets you to feel, then chances are you will feel let down and betrayed. </p>
<p>But if you look at things rationally and see that there ain’t no such thing as a free lunch, and that if you are coming from a much lower spot on the economic totem, then you do have it much, much harder, then chances are the hard-working, smart kid will be able to find a functional plan for obtaining an education. </p>
<p>Sure, it is worth trying to get a fullride to an Ivy League. It is also worth planning out a plan B, C, and D for financial safety schools. Understand that the system doesn’t guarantee you anything, so it can’t fail.</p>
<p>Edit: I’m responding to OP, not wherever the posts have gone in the previous pages</p>