<p>Unfortunately, we could all have some underlying cardiac or neurological weakness that could result in a medical crisis at any time. I had a neighbor who went to work (age 38), got a headache and within an hour was permanently in a vegetative state due to a brain aneurysm. </p>
<p>These are things that cannot be prevented. I suppose we could live in a bubble and never go on a fast ride at an amusement park, or jog, or get excited and get our blood pressure up. But then, life would not be much fun, would it. The best we can do, is use reasonable precautions and live each day to the fullest.</p>
<p>Weenie - very sad. I just heard an NPR story that said that majority of fatality accidents with 18-22 year olds occur when there are 3 or more kids in the car. Not that this was the cause in this sad case, but it makes sense that the driver is not paying attention to the fullest with a car full. I have told my D and S that they should not take a car full (they should take one passenger only) or that they should not go in a car filled with friends. The risks are too great. It was one of the reasons we allowed our kids to buy their own cars when they could afford it (with our help).</p>
<p>^ So true. To compound this particular disaster, 4 of their friends were following in a car and witnessed the accident. </p>
<p>I guess it’s yet another wake up call. It reminds me of the Allstate ad that says, “If 12 fully loaded jumbo jets crashed every year, something would be done about it.” Nearly 6,000 teens die in car crashes, the ad continues, but the problem barely makes headlines. The tagline: “It’s time to make the world a safer place to drive.”</p>
<p>I used to read these kinds of stories to my son (trying to make a subtle point). The fact that one moment can change everything. Time will tell if my points sunk in.</p>
<p>I know that it would not have sunk in with my son. I did the same thing as in post #13. The one thing that hit home, was a family’s devastation that he felt first hand when his college friend’s relative (age 16) died in a car accident. His friend left college for several days/week to attend the funeral and be with her family. That really hit home. It was so sad.</p>