<p>Eating out or having coffee can be anxiety producing. A movie might be an option or a play. Snacks at our home with a drink might be good. Any other ideas?</p>
<p>Although it’s not that great of a time of the year (depending on where you live, I suppose), just going for a long drive somewhere while you catch up in the car is nice, if you live somewhere where going for a drive can be pleasant (i.e. sightseeing, even if it’s places you’ve seen before).</p>
<p>This time of the year, finding a neighborhood that’s known for really doing up the whole Christmas/holiday lights is fun, too.</p>
<p>Letting the friend pick the time-of-day for getting together could be a big help. FIL had on-times and off-times related to the medication schedules. (That may have gotten better by now; he’s been gone a while.)</p>
<p>Drinks in cups with lids and straws are a lot easier to manage than are glasses and coffee cups if tremor is a significant issue. </p>
<p>I like the sightseeing drive idea.</p>
<p>Taking a water aerobics class?
They have both deep and shallow, and it is good exercise for someone with nerve or muscle issues.
the water gives support in a way that being on land does not, and it can be very theraputic.</p>