I also have wide feet, with regular heels and no arch. I’m a size 13 women/11 men, usually. So for sneakers, slides, and sandals (which is just about all I wear), I shop men’s sizes. I like my Orthofeet (returnable for a year, the last time I looked). Limited colors for sure. I also like New Balance and Sketchers.
I was sad when Payless went under. They had a pretty good selection of women’s size 13 and even 14. And if they wore out fast, so what? Replacement cost was minimal.