I would agree with @CateCAParent and @comtnmom on those schools for the environment that you’re looking for (although that may be more relevant for future applicants.)
It sounds though like you have already finished applying and are preparing yourself to send your D away. It is easiest when you know it’s a great place for your kid, because honestly, that’s a gift. But it won’t make you miss them any less. And it will make you a pro with the many ways to communicate!