I apologize in advance if my wording or structure is off. I’m just dumping all of my thoughts on here.
So I (21) am a sophomore that’s currently a full time (in-person) student at a school that has, in my opinion, very little to offer. The coursework lacks substance, the professors are extremely unhelpful, and most of my social circle is through my team, and I haven’t really built close friendships outside of it yet. What I do know is that I’m very passionate about what I study and the degree that I’m pursuing, and I love the city that I’m located in.
I have a good amount of work experience in the field that I’m interested in, and I desperately want to continue working and networking in that field because 1. I love it so much and 2. I want to set myself up for success once I graduate.
One idea that I had was that I could find a strong online (asynchronous) program at an accredited institution that could provide me both the flexibility to work full time and a more in-depth learning experience.
I ended up finding a program that I really like, and the classes seem super in-depth and interesting, even though it’s an online program. The people that go there love it, and the school has a lot of great connections for internships and work opportunities (at least for the people that live on campus).
Something that bothers me about this is that my mom thinks it’s a horrible idea. I have always looked up to my mom, and she has done really well for herself. She thinks that I won’t have any opportunities to meet professors, network, and/or build relationships outside of work. She also thinks I’m squashing the opportunity to build stronger relationships with the staff at the school that I currently attend, and that I’m making an unwise decision to leave all of it behind so that I can jump into finding my own apartment in the city and working full-time.
This all (mostly) boils down to me not wanting to make a decision that I’ll deeply regret later in life. But I do have confidence that I will be able to pivot and make a smart decision if it doesn’t work out the way that I wanted it to.
I’m sending this out because I’m curious if anybody has experienced anything similar, or if anybody has done an all online program and has any experience that they want to share or advice that they want to offer.
Thank you very much!