<p>Honestly, this approach only helps guys who want to just get a girl interested… if they want them to stay interested and be in a stable and healthy relationship, this is not the way to go. Also, don’t you want to date a girl who actually likes you, instead of someone who is simply trying to catch you? Eventually (if you want this to develop into a relationship), you will let your guard down and all the mystique will be lost, and the girl will be on to the next big thing…</p>
<p>Well, the fact is, a lot of guys have great personality. But they don’t have a chance a shine unless the girls are interested in them. =)</p>
<p>I have heard of men who will insult girls to throw them off their guard. I think it works better on younger women and less secure women. Personally, I don’t see the point… the straightforward approach works too well. If you see a girl, there’s nothing wrong with walking up to her and saying, “I saw you over there and I had to talk to you.”</p>
<p>But to the a girl who gets approached a lot, the straightforward way usually don’t work because she has seen it everyday.</p>
<p>Actually, the girl has probably already decided whether you are “dating material” or not before you even start talking to her. Don’t believe me? You probably do this subconsciously with girls too. Try to catch yourself the next time you go around checking out girls. Ask yourself “which ones would I date? Which ones won’t I date?” The answer will come surprisingly fast/easy.</p>
<p>Of course, this can change as she gets to know you better…</p>
<p>Actually… no. Yes, some women get approached a lot, but they are approached by men who do thinks like have burping contests in front of them or say ridiculous things like, “May I buy you a drink? …If I get you liquored up, maybe you’ll invite me home with you.” Straightforward and confident is rare.</p>