<p>Theres alot of truth in this article. Especially the part about the early stages – “The key in this stage is to communicate that you have no sexual desire of her. Be desire-less.” This is critical in the beginning. Girls are often insecure/afraid of being used for sex. Also, another reason you can’t act overly-interested is because some girls like a challenge (and they want to feel special). Think about it – if you were really good-looking and got women constantly would you really be trying hard to get a girl. No, you wouldnt care because you know you have lots of options and can get any girl. To be successful you need to be at this confidence level. Girls want a desirable guy who they feel has chosen her out of the bunch, not be some losers pity date. Basically, If you act too assertive/overly interested it seems like you struggle getting girls. Be confident, Be yourself, but don’t try too hard.</p>
<p>I would say a good portion of men fall into that category…it’s just a waiting game, really. It is in my opinion that once you find that one easy slut (and bang her silly, of course) hooking up with other girls won’t be hard at all.</p>
<p>Just accept the fact that you’re going to be a miserable failure when it comes to girls and be glad you’re able to go to college and have food and shelter. It doesn’t always pay to want too much. Then you won’t appear so desperate when talking to them.</p>
<p>the article actually has a few points that are subtle and useful for the, um, novice. Like the bit about the difference between “offering a solution” and “offering support” when a woman talks about her problems.</p>
<p>The funny thing is, this is the only article on the site that’s not a complete joke.</p>
<p>hahaha that’s just funny. someone decided to ‘delete’ the article and wrote this: “We don’t need angry virgin nerds using wikipedia to passive-aggressively attack women. Please delete this article.”</p>
<p>idiots. don’t they know that you can still go into the history of the article and see all changes made to it. :sigh:</p>
<p>If you want the consumer (girl) to find you attractive you have to appear like a very rare and expensive jewel. You need to estlabish a way to have multiple girls interested in you (demand). But don’t go out with them (supply). With low supply and high demand, girls are willing to work for you. You also have to make sure your not too easy. Make them work for you. Like the OP said, girls like a challenge.</p>
<p>Pyleela, you shouldn’t be offended by that if the guy does it right. With a playful insult (maybe followed by “just kidding…”), a guy could probably interest me more than with a trite and overdone compliment. Compliments are nice, but sometimes you want something else thrown in, and for a guy to challenge you a bit, as opposed to basically bowing at your feet.</p>
<p>Haha. I love it when men make threads about so-called magical solutions/explanations to their girl problems! I don’t know if anyone remembers the thread about the guy who had supposedly discovered what women REALLY want. And, what was his theory? Well, the theory goes that men will basically fornicate with any breathing (although, this is arguable), somewhat sustainable, and mentally capable object while women are only attracted to men with lots of money and a nice car. I protested this in vain, only to learn that I was the bitter one. </p>
<p>I will say, you appear a little narrowminded when you degrade all sentimentalities by relating them to your college major.</p>
<p>Gemstar66–Playfulness is fine. I wasn’t too sure about the tone in the wikiprocess. And it depends on how the relationship is, of course, and the guy. If you’re not going to end up going out with the guy anyway, and you know this, you won’t take any jokes, pseudo-insults, etc. You’ll just be annoyed. I’ll say, then, try to set up a good repertoire with the girl before you begin joking-insultingly TOO much with her.</p>
<p>I think the article forgot to explain that this method works better with pretty and secure girls. I find that the more secure a girl is, the less likely they will be offended.</p>