@Senior2016M
Not many people seem to grasp what you said in your first paragraph. Sure, getting into a college is important, insofar as it allows you to explore your passions and find out more about who you are. But the college itself is less important. I couldn’t agree more that what ultimately matters is making the most of your years in high school. I’m a senior, and a couple weeks ago I though to myself, “Wow, I still love to be involved with the extracurriculars I’ve committed myself to for these four years.” I’ve been able to help others, develop critical skill sets, and really become deeply involved with what I love to do. Realizing that I’ve spent my time doing things I’m passionate about is such a relief, and I don’t think I could have recognized this until now.
At the same time, I think the goal of attending a top school is fair enough, for any student. These schools offer the best financial aid and internship, job prospects, so to say that a student only desires the “fancy name” is unfair. There are very significant pragmatic advantages to going to a highly-rated school, and the vast majority of colleges in the US simply can’t offer these advantages.
As for additional information to help you recommend colleges:
So, I’m really adaptable. Financial aid is important, as is a degree of intellectual freedom. I don’t feel strongly about the size of a school, but nothing more than 15,000 undergrads. I want to stay near the East Coast, preferably urban or suburban (or within about an hour of a city; public transit options would be nice). Politically, I’m looking for a school that leans liberal, perhaps significantly. I’ll probably study some combination of international relations, economics, public policy, etc. Social sciences. Let me know if you want any more info.
Other schools I’m considering are: (top choices) Georgetown, Brown, Dartmouth, Duke, Columbia, Yale; (medium) Penn, American, GWU, NYU. In addition to Princeton, I’ve submitted applications to UVA, UNC, and state schools.
Thanks for your response, and best of luck to everyone!