Update on frustration (sorry if I already shared this). Also, I apologize in advance to anyone who might be offended by the inherent privilege of this story - yes, my kiddo attends a boarding school…. 
So kiddo had an informational (in person) interview at a well known university (not in the NE). It’s competitive - with a 15% admit rate last year. Stated mean SAT 1520. Almost there on that front. OK - so the guy droned on about how this school only accepts the “most” academically competitive, talented, angelic, driven, blah, blah, blah….students who are in the top 1%-2% of their class. Cue the record stopping sound now. 
AO: “So, GolfKiddo, I am happy to hear that you are interested in our esteemed university. What is your class ranking?
GK: “ Sir, our school does not provide class rankings”
AO: “Well, then, are you in the top 1% - 2% of your class?
GK: “ Sir, I am not quite sure but I do have all A’s - except for one B+ (Mr 89 strikes again) Freshman year. Also, only 2 students had an Average above 95 last year…I know I am within the top 10%” 
AO: “That’s unfortunate - we are not looking for the top 10%, but the top 1%-2% of applicants from their school.
GK: “But, I go to (insert name of Boarding School here) where it is was highly competitive to be accepted and where I am with very competitive students from around the world”
AO: “ I am sorry, but I do not know this school. I am being honest with you, but I don’t think you will have a shot at ED and maybe if you have something compelling to write about and a strong letter from your advisor, it might be worth your effort to apply RD”
So right now, golfkiddo and I are wondering if it might have been better to have stayed home for school - especially with COVID factors . The students at the local public school and local private school had easier course loads, higher grades, and lots of support from parents. Like many of you, I had a kid who had a rigorous academic schedule, weeks of isolation in the dorm room, and very few opportunities to experience the traditions that make BS so special. Just venting….looking for validation from anyone else out there who has run into this.