<p>Neither. I pronounce “tour” to rhyme with “poor.” (I’m from New York City – Manhattan, specifically – and, accordingly, have no accent whatsoever. I just pronounce things the way they’re supposed to be pronounced!)</p>
<p>I’ve lived in the upper midwest, the middle midwest, deep south, southern California, and Hawaii, and had never heard it pronounced tore-nament until we moved to mid-Atlantic area ten years ago.</p>
<p>Everywhere else it was too-rnament or ter-nament.</p>
<p>From NY originally so I say tore na ment. When I first lived in California decades ago, I had a conversation with someone about how to pronounce, Mary (her name) merry and marry. She pronounced them all the same. I pronounced Mary long a, merry short e and marry with a short a sound. We worked in a library and so we looked up the pronunciation in a dictionary and she was shocked to see the pronunciation guide supported my pronunciations. </p>
<p>Born in Western Pennsylvania- it was and still is tore-na-ment for me. But our friends in Indiana say ter-na-ment as did our neighbors when we lived in Michigan. It drives me crazy because one of my kids picked up the ter-na-ment pronunciation in spite of my efforts to correct her :)</p>
<p>Wow, (re: post 14) I pronounce merry, marry, and Mary exactly the same Do you mean merry rhymes with furry? So marry rhymes with starry? That would no work here :)</p>
<p>We’ve done this before. Say mat. Say met. They dont rhyme. Now say mat-ree. Met-ree. They don’t rhyme. Now, just drop the t. Mah-ree, meh-ree. Neither sound like “mare” as in the horse, and neither sounds like starry. </p>
<p>East Coast born and bred, but I’ve always said tournament as ter-nament and tourniquet as ter-nakit.</p>
<p>In my neck of the woods we have a tuna-mint. Which is how the locals pronounce the Masters golf tournament. You also have to clench your jaw a bit when you say it. It’s the same time as the end of March madness so I thought I could sneak it in here.</p>