<p>I am currently a college freshman and I have been a fan of these forums for a long, long time. I read them constantly during my admissions process, none more than this time last year. I had never really thought about posting, but I’ve never been this compelled to post before. I don’t know if I’m adding new information to the table, or just rehashing old stuff (if I do I apologize, I wasn’t able to read 18 pages worth of posts).</p>
<p>Last year, I applied to Harvard early decision. It, like many of you here, was my dream school. I loved it and imagined, for as long as I knew about college, of going there. After my batch of emails was messed up, I found out at 10pm on the early decision notification night that I was deferred. I will never forget the feeling of waiting up all night, just to end the evening in more uncertainty. I was then waitlisted when regular decisions came around. I spent every day from March to June checking this site. Whenever I heard that the next batch of rejection letters was “sweeping the country,” I would approach the mailbox with fear for days. And then, in late June, it came. A dream that had begun years ago, and officially started with the mailing in of my application in October, ended 8 months, one deferral, one waitlist, and several rejection rounds later.</p>
<p>I was fortunate to still have a bunch of colleges to choose from, and over what US News and my friends deemed to be “better” colleges, I bypassed the Ivys I got into and other good schools for my favorite: Georgetown. Even after sending in the money and being excited, I told myself I would definitely apply to Harvard as a transfer applicant next year. After all, attending Harvard was my dream.</p>
<p>And then a funny thing happened between last June and this March. I fell in love with Georgetown. It was not the top ranked school in US News. It carried prestige, but certainly not the same prestige as Harvard. Graduating will open me up to plenty of great jobs in the future, but certainly won’t open as many doors as Harvard could. And yet, it didn’t, and doesn’t, matter. I made better friends than I could ever imagine. I took great classes, joined great clubs, and currently serve as a tour guide urging other students, just like me, to come here. When I’m not doing work, hanging ou with friends, working out, or doing club activities, I’m exploring WashingtoN DC, a great city right at my feet. </p>
<p>When the time came around for applying to transfer in the winter, well, I didn’t even remember it. Reading this thread on College Confidential, a website I returned to for the first time in months to help give advice to prospective Georgetown students, was the first time I even remembered that transfer applications for Harvard were due. It’s quite a turnaround from the HARVARD OBSESSED kid I was a year ago.</p>
<p>But the point of this post is not about me (although after many paragraphs about myself it probably seems like it was … I apologize). The point is to tell people, as someone with - I swear - tons of experience feeling the deepest, strongest desire to go to Harvard, that it does end up okay. I am not saying everyone is like me. I understand that many people did not go to their college and love it. But the fact remains: you can transfer elsewhere and still love it. All I could think of this time last year was how to transfer to Harvard. The same time this year, it was the furthest thing from my mind … literally. And before you make assumptions that I didn’t want to go to Harvard as badly as you currently do now, let me assure you, I did.</p>
<p>When you boil down the facts, what does Harvard have that other colleges don’t? The prestige? The nametag value? The education? The location? I know there are thousands of great qualities Harvard has, but they are qualities that many other fantastic schools, schools that are accepting transfer applicants, have as well. College, while being what many call the best four years of your life, also acts at a basic level as an intermediary between your high school self and your real world job. So if you, somewhere deep down, partially want to go to Harvard because it will get you that great job or into a great law school (and that was a big factor for me), know that these doors are open to you from a multitude of different schools.</p>
<p>This post is not meant to recruit people to Georgetown (although if you came I bet you’d have the time of your life); it’s to let you know that there is life out there after Harvard. I am, in no way, endorsing this decision. It is an incredibly cruel and insensitive thing to do to students who spent not only months working on the transfer application, but years compiling the grades and accolades necessary to get into Harvard. Harvard has lost a good deal of credibility in my book, and I feel anger and sadness for all those affected (that’s why I’m writing here for the first time in what must have been a thousand visits to this site). However, as hard as it is to say, the situation is what it is. When I didn’t get into Harvard, I wanted to appeal the decision, go to the board, beg and plead. Eventually, I had to realize that the situation is what it is. It takes time, and I am not trying to rush anyone along, but take it from someone who knows, at least to a degree, what you are feeling. Once you are finally able to accept this decision, and harness your energy to finding another school that fits you best, I can promise that you will discover the joys of the “college years” that everyone is always talking about.</p>
<p>Best of luck to all … I feel your pain and will be thinking of you and hoping that you all enjoy your next years of college, wherever they may be!</p>