Hello everyone!
I’m a student at Colgate University looking to transfer schools…I have a number of reasons why, but one of the most prominent is that my family’s gone through quite a bit of hardship recently, and while I initially liked that Gate was so isolated and gave me space from my relatives, I no longer feel the same (we’ve had several deaths in the family within the last year, and while we were always close, losing my loved ones has reminded me how much I love being with my family…honestly, being at Gate is pretty lonely with them several states away, so I was hoping to be a little closer).
I was thinking about transferring either to Boston University or Boston College (I applied to both my senior year and got in, but turned them down because I thought I preferred Colgate’s intense rural setting). I like both schools, but am revisiting them soon just to get an idea of which one I’d prefer (my cousin went to BU and she really liked it, as did I, but BC is less in the city and has more campus, so I’m a little torn right now).
Anyways, right now I’m taking four classes at Colgate, one of them a lab science. It’s a computer science course, and I hate it! It’s immensely difficult, and while I’ve gone to tutoring, seen my professor countless times, and even talked with classmates and a senior friend of mine majoring in the subject, I just can’t wrap my head around it! I want to withdraw…I have a C+ now (barely…I have a 76.7 when a C+ starts at 77), and while I want to bring it up I can’t imagine it going higher than a B, tops (I’m aiming at B-…an 80-82).
Thing is, I’m a Creative Writing major. I’m taking an English course now that i’m so far doing well in, as well as an acting course which I am also doing well in, and a required core course that has no grades but that I understand the material in and hope to excel in, once we get grades. So…comp. sci. isn’t my thing, nor is it something I’m pursuing in the future…would either of these schools hold it against me if I withdrew from the class to save my average? Or should I stick it out and just hope to keep a B- (I’m aiming at an A in all my other classes, which from what my professors have told me is very possible so long as I just keep putting a lot of effort in and excelling in my work).
Thoughts?I’m also going to post something in the “Transfer Fall 2018 Chances” board (for BU and BC) here, just to get an idea…
*Don’t get me wrong, I don’t hate Colgate, it’s a wonderful school! I just feel like I didn’t really imagine how far away I would be from my family (I’m very family-oriented, we’re no stifling each other but we are very close), and after these recent losses (one of them was my mother), I can’t stand being so far away (also in case anyone is wondering, I did talk to a grief counselor about my transfer thoughts and why I felt the way I did, and she said it’s a perfectly normal thing, so don’t think that I’m making any rash decisions without really thinking it through. I also, as I said, have other reasons to transfer, I just mention my family because it’s one of the bigger reasons).
Um…yeah so I think that’s it! Please let me know how a transfer grade would look on my transcript, like I said I’m working hard and striving to get A’s, which are within my grasp…I thought that since comp. sci. wasn’t anywhere near my major, I would fair better than if I withdrew from an English or similar course. I only had about three weeks to decide to pull out of the course, too, so any opinions and whatnot are greatly appreciated!
**I’ll also update this board with replies in case I forget anything, or to address any questions people may have. Sorry if I seem a little enthusiastic, it’s just I’m rather nervous and would really appreciate some advice.