My heart goes out to you. I agree, if you are still in school you hopefully have access to free or low cost counseling. Some parents can never accept this and others do, but you do have to separate your life from theirs, especially if you are in your mid 20’s. If you can finish your degree soon, then do, but if these issues require a pause to re-set your direction, then the counseling can help you see a clearer path.