Legal and medical transition is not possible (as far as I know) without extensive discussion/counseling/etc. Have you started this process? I think most college health plans cover it, and your parents are NOT entitled to any information about who you are seeing or what you are talking about. Kiddo, you need help from professionals, not well-meaning folks here at CC who do not necessarily know anything about this issue – although they may have big hearts and a lot of acceptance. I wish you had this parent: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jon-ralston/the-child-i-love_b_10116578.html If that ain’t gonna happen, just know that you are in at least one person’s prayers to find comfort and happiness. God bless you and keep you safe. ATS