Thanks for the very fast replies! I feel I can always count in the CC community to have thoughtful input.
Her school does have standard permissions that parents agree to at the beginning of the year ( and can override on an ad hoc basis), and her school does allow Uber/Lyft use if parents allow it. There is also a day population that biarders could ride with if they have permission and a few boarders are allowed cars under certain circumstances.
The issue I have been running into is Uber and Lyft’s stated age restrictions. But it sounds like they are not heavily enforced, so they coukd be good options for her.