I have 2 daughters who went to Providence College. My third daughter married a guy from PC. His brother and his sister-in-law both went to PC. My cousins son went there as well. The point is that I know and have talked with a lot of PC folks. I haven’t met a single one who didn’t love their 4 years there. I have met a lot who hated to leave. Whether it’s Providence or a Jesuit college, these are not your Mom or Dad’s Catholic colleges. The religion is there for those who want it, but otherwise it’s not overwhelming. In other words, it doesn’t seek you out. If you want it, you have to seek it out. Catholicism is their history, and I think that brings with it a sense of tradition in Western civilization, an ethical sense, and a view of moral purpose. Will your son be miserable at Providence? I don’t know, but I would be really surprised if he was. There’s lots of school spirit and many opportunities for intramural sports for a kid like him. Lots of kids who go there are headed for a career in business, so he should find like minded peers with a business program, grounded in liberal arts. Overall it has a laid back vibe.
Let me contrast PC with Babson, which I think offers an incredible educational experience. Like BU (11% acceptance rate), Babson has become highly selective (17% acceptance rate vs 51% at PC). It would be a reach for your son, but more importantly, the students there tend to be more driven than those at Providence. So, which environment would he tend to thrive in? Either would offer a good education, but the key question is which would be a better fit for him? Visit and see what you think.
Fairfield is somewhere in between although more like PC than Babson. Applications are up there; it is a “hot” school in terms of interest. So, it has become harder to get into (33% acceptance rate). A friend of mine is on the faculty of the Business School and she attributes the surge in applications to interest in the Business School. Located on Connecticut’s “Gold Coast”, it has relatively easy access to NYC with a lot of commuters who ride the rails to jobs in the City living there. Or to the growing business community in the exurbs of Stamford, Greenwich, White Plains, and New Rochelle. A lot of students like that proximity with the hopes of getting internships in or near NYC. I have a cousin who went there for nursing and loved it.
Fordham continues the same kind of culture. Located in the Bronx with a second smaller high rise campus at Lincoln Center, the Bronx campus is beautiful with opportunities for expanded space across the street in the NY Botanical Gardens & Bronx Park. Great Italian food down the street in Belmont, the “Little Italy” of the Bronx. Otherwise the surrounding area is urban and gritty. There is easy access to Manhattan vis campus shuttle van to Lincoln Center, commuter rail with a station at the edge of campus, or City Subway a few blocks away. With a 58% acceptance rate, it should be within reach for your son. Because of its location, large alumni network in the NY business community, and the respected Gabelli School of Business (excellent facilities on campus), it is popular as a back up choice for students whose first choice is NYU or Columbia. In full disclosure, I have family ties (brother, son, cousins), none of whom went into a business career.
I’ll stop there because the rest of your list all offer obvious differences in terms of location, size, and/or culture. But all are appropriate in terms of an admissions match and provide a range of admissions difficulty which give you targets and safeties while BU and Babson are both reaches, I have family and friends with kids at Quinnipiac (72% acceptance rate), Syracuse (37% acceptance rate), Loyola (75% acceptance rate), and American (62% acceptance rate) and can answer questions about them.