Not only merit aid, but also the possibility #9 may offer full-ride FA packages for low-income students admitted whereas the same student may be forced to take out much more onerous loans at #25.
Incidentally, this focus on merit aid shows how concerns voiced by many parents on CC tend to skew upper/upper-middle class as much has been written which shows merit aid tends to overwhelmingly benefit the upper/upper-middle class as opposed to lower-middle class/low income students.
There’s also the factor the student concerned might be a recent immigrant who doesn’t fully know the US higher ed landscape and has to navigate it by him/herself* because of parental language and cultural barriers with little assistance from overwhelmed public school GC/teachers whose attention are overwhelmingly focused on marginal and even violent students in the school.
Seems like the poster who’d reject a student who is concerned about the diff between #9 and #25 doesn’t care about or is oblivious to how many recent immigrants students/families cannot adjust nearly as quickly to knowing the US system as she may think. Especially if they are lower SES to begin with and the parents left without finishing middle school or even elementary school back in their nations of origin.
And such immigrants may not fully accept advice from multi-generational Americans because such parents(especially upper/upper-middle class White) may have had a history within the immigrant community of lying/misleading older members of the community in order to ensure less competition for their own kids or those of “their own kind” to elite colleges.
Not an unreasonable assumption as I’ve seen this behavior practiced by some multi-generational White American parents at my HS and heard about such parents trying to pull the same on other recent immigrant families…including those of extended family in leafy suburban areas with academically topflight school districts within the state**.
- Most HS classmates I knew including those who were admitted to the elite colleges including HYPSMCC navigated college admissions themselves with very little/no parental help due to those issues.
** Over this past Christmas dinner, a few older cousins who attended a suburban NJ school district which is a peer of WWP without the over-the-top busywork/craziness recounted how while growing up in that town in the '70s and '80s they had to deal with the snobbery and racism from many neighbors, classmates, and townsfolk because they were one of a few non-White families and one of the poorest in the town at the time.
The parents did their best, but ended up having to get meaningful college advice from extended family members who were much more familiar with the higher-ed landscape because most of the parents and even some HS admins*** at the time were of the mind that seats at respectable/elite colleges “don’t belong” to immigrants/non-White minorities…especially if their SES isn’t upper/upper-middle class like themselves.
While the climate has improved by the ‘00s and early ‘10s for the younger cousins, they had to put up with some of the same stereotyping BS about Asian-American “grinders”/“elite prestigehounds****” and yes…understood they needed to ignore “advice” from several multi-generational classmates’ parents who tried their best to steer them away from applying to respectable/elite universities and towards focusing mainly on directionals and yes…even community colleges. Thankfully, the admins were much more supportive and confirmed the younger cousins’ own suspicions that those parents may not have their best interests at heart…especially considering they were graduating near the top of their high school classes. All of them are now attending Ivies.
*** The admins at the time were trying their best to steer a cousin with stats which made him a viable contender for respectable/elite colleges toward a directional state college which tended to be the default for students whose academic performance placed them near the bottom of his HS’s graduating class.
Thanks to his and academic extended family members’ advice to ignore that BS advice, he ended up applying to and gaining admissions to a top 25 university on a full-ride FA/scholarship package. Graduated their with honors and ended up rising quickly into a senior research leader position for a major pharmaceutical research company.
**** Ironic considering most of the students in the top 10-20% of the graduating class…including multi-generational White students had comparable/worse elite/Ivy or bust mentality than the top third/quarter of my Stuyvesant graduating class,