First off, I feel for you. I can imagine how you are feeling. The first suggestion I have, if you were my child would be to talk to your family and share your feelings with them if you have a decent relationship and also seek some type of counseling if appropriate. Just remember that your feelings are only temporary and maybe counseling can help. The second thing I would encourage my child to do is to continue to join different groups, participate in dorm activities, and continue as you have been doing in trying to make friends. At the same time, ensuring my child that whatever he or she decides to do whether it is to stay or to transfer out is perfectly fine. Finally, I would do exactly what you are doing and work hard yet at the same time prepare a transfer application since it can open up other opportunities for you. If you do make friends in the second semester, you don’t have to transfer. If you do not make friends and a better opportunity arises, you can transfer. Moreover, you might want to also consider all your options. This could include staying, transferring, gap year, working, or even going to a local community college if you don’t get into the school of your choice (UW). Nevertheless, you will need to talk and communicate with your family or those who are supporting you if you can. Take care and good luck!
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