Why do you care if some LACs seem to favor athletes or legacies? If kids from her HS are getting into Middlebury with her stats, it shouldn’t be impossible to find good schools where her stats are competitive without such a hook. Less selective alternatives might include Bates, Bryn Mawr, Colby, Dickinson, Grinnell, Kenyon, Macalester, Mt. Holyoke, Skidmore, or Whitman. These all fall within the USNWR top 40 LACs, and don’t seem to be too too different from Haverford or Middlebury in terms of size, curriculum, “vibe”, or overall quality (although BMC and Mt. Holyoke are women’s colleges).